How to Do-Good

Quick How-To Guide: Start the day with a little silence, scripture (via Forward Day by Day, if you choose) and prayer. Then open your eyes and make it a practice to be hyper-aware of who and what's going on around you. Deploy that deed with confidence when God gives you his signature gentle nudge. This may feel awkward and unnatural. #NoWorries #GoWithIt #DeedWellDone #BlessingsEnsueJustWait

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

Lent Day 42 (Day 388 of Experiment)



Scripture: Ps 70; Isaiah 50:4-9a; Hebrews 12:1-3; John 13:21-32


Scripture standout: Hebrews 12: "Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight and the sin that clings so closely, and let us run with perseverance the race that is set before us, looking to Jesus the pioneer and perfecter of our faith, who for the sake of the joy that was set before him endured the cross, disregarding its shame, and has taken his seat at the right hand of the throne of God."


His Deed/The Day: Signed up to do a dinner for someone. I love these opportunities. They're such a gift! With all the new "bring them dinner" websites, it is easy to organize and participate in these community support networks.  I'm sure you've gotten them — the emails from someone's committed friend who presents a calendar of open days to bring a struggling family dinner. Dinners are so easy and so meaningful — don't ever over think this one, just sign up and make it happen!


Deedsclosure: I just read a friend's newly launched blog. It's called therightvolume.com and it's beautiful and bright, just like she is! In a description of herself, the author shares how much she loves chicks — her girlfriends, and what joy they bring her. I agree! A little deedsclosure for your daily do-gooding duties: having a stash of awesome girlfriends not only makes you a happier, fuller person — it will make you a better Good Samaritan.


Here's why: To deed effectively, awareness of others is absolutely imperative. Without a present perspective or appreciation for people around you, deeding is impossible. Said another way: if you can't get your head out of your butt and see the needs of those around you, your screwed in the deeding department.  Want to be aware of others? One way is to constantly be in tune with who's in your space. The other way is to keep up with your girlfriends. Now there's a simple remedy! Girlfriends are the first to whisper UNCLE to each other when they're struggling. Girlfriends are good about sharing ways to prop other girlfriends up. And girlfriends will be the first ones to hang by your side when you need that extra support. 


Girlfriends, in a word, rawk deeds. The dinner plan I referenced above? Organized by a girlfriend. Who nudges others when a gal pal is in need? Girlfriends. Who blabs about their worries? Girlfriends. Ever wonder who's behind an important fundraiser or community activity. In most cases, girlfriends.


Make time for your girlfriends. Gather with them. Share your fears and worries — celebrate each other's successes and raise a glass for no reason at all. Here's to girlfriends!

No comments:

Post a Comment